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“Somewhere in the back of our minds, there is this hope that there is someone in the world for each one of us to love,” reflects Dina Lajom, who wed Francis Balderas in Tucson this October.

Introduced through close friends, the pair began their courtship in the summer of 2005. Undeterred by a long distance relationship (Chicago and Tucson), Dina and Francis began to integrate their lives over this time. “For two years, we have taken turns traveling back and forth to see each other,” recalls the bride.

This past January, the couple traveled to the Philippines where Francis respectfully asked Dina’s mother for her daughter’s hand in marriage. “This is a Filipino Tradition called “Pamanhikan” that is held dear by my mother and family,” explains Dina.

Reflecting on the Filipino traditions embraced by both families became a hallmark of the couple’s wedding celebration. Wearing the formal “Barong Tagalog,” the groom was proudly escorted down the church aisle by his mother and sister. They were followed by the ring bearer, the coin bearer, the Bible bearer, six flower girls and a junior bridesmaid, as well as the groomsmen. The maid of honor led the bride’s procession. Dressed in a gown of silk shantung purchased in the Philippines, the bride was escorted down the aisle by her mother and sister.

The ceremony was enhanced by music performed by the Tucson Girls Chorus.

Following their exchange of vows, the couple and their guests celebrated at the Westward Look Resort and Spa. Guests were treated to a video entitled “Because of You,” prepared by the newlyweds, which featured images of their family and friends who played important roles in their lives.

As a remembrance of the event, each guest was given a set of miniature bamboo wind chimes purchased in the Philippines especially for the wedding.

Reception Location:
Westward Look Resort and Spa

Photographer:
Something Blue Photography

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