in their own words

“Despite our similar vision of what makes a perfect marriage, we began our engagement with very different ideas of what makes a perfect wedding. And so, in what was sure to be the first of many great compromises, we strove for our wedding to be in perfect balance: elegant, but fun; traditional, but personalized. To set this tone, we opted for a traditional reception site, the Grand Ballroom at La Paloma Resort and Spa, but a nontraditional rehearsal dinner location, the Reid Park Zoo, where open access to the zoo, giraffe feeding, Eegees and a Mexican buffet awaited our guests. We came to decide on this spot due to our mutual love for animals and our desire for the kids in our wedding, all seven of them, to have a great time.

the Past, the Present, the future
Our ceremony site was a quaint, picturesque church nestled in the west facing slope of the Catalinas. Our guests were enchanted with mountainside views from one end and city lights from the other. Our personal touches during the ceremony included a bagpiper in full dress, seven very special kids and a sand ceremony, which brought together sand from our native states—Arizona and Illinois. We chose to use sand from the towns where we grew up because we wanted the sand ceremony to not only represent the blending of our present and future lives, but also our pasts.

thanks for the MeMories Once we officially became husband and wife, we wanted our guests to let loose! To help the process along, we had a Photo Fun Booth waiting for them at the cocktail hour. Our friends and family enjoyed hors d’oeuvres and drinks while taking goofy photos and creating one-of-a-kind scrapbook pages that we will cherish—and laugh at—for many years to come. To tie the Photo Fun Booth into our reception further, we bought frames that were the perfect size for the pictures the Fun Booth created. Upon arrival, each guest found their seating assignment card in the frame, which, together with their favorite photo of the evening, created a great favor.

Honoring the supporting cast One of the most memorable events of the night was when our wedding party was introduced. Instead of having the DJ announce their names as way of introduction, we decided to do the honor ourselves. We selected a song for each bridesmaid and groomsman and choreographed the order with the DJ. The chorus lines of each song were played while we said a few sentences about its corresponding wedding party member, highlighting as many endearing and laughable qualities as we could. At the end of each introduction, we revealed the name of the person we had just described, all of which led to moments of uninhibited laughter, not only because of what we said, but because of our wedding party’s reactions. Ultimately, we wanted to give them some well-deserved recognition for all the years of friendship and months of wedding help they gave us.”

Location:
Westin La Paloma Resort & Spa

Photographer:
Patrick Grimes Photography

Florist:
Floral Art by Rachel

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